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I hear what you're saying Mark, freedom for all. :) But there's a difference - a kilt is traditional Scots male dress yes, but its' not religious, not something you "have" to put on as part of your race or religion, and you have a choice :) Were Scots ever forced to wear kilts? :wink:
The girl has no choice.

If the school is so concerned about the dress code why can't she wear the scarf with the school badge. :?
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Markgway wrote:This joke's for LD: Where in the Middle East would you find a dumb blonde with massive tits? :wink:
First of all, a dumb blonde with her tits almost falling out of her shirt is more provocative than a woman wearing a scarf in my opinion, don't you think so, too? I mean a woman who wears a scarf does it, because she believes it is a law of God's. I can't believe a "dumb blond" is showing lots of skin because she thinks she is obliged to do so or because she believes that otherwise she will be punished in her after-life.

Funny you should mention that, though. Apart from all the tourists that come to visit countries in the Middle East and walk around like they do in their own countires, there are also foreigners who live there. Man, you should go to Lebanon for example. Lots of Russian foreigners live there and their ladies walk around like they wouldn't even do in Russia because it's too cold there to do so. There are even Russian prostitutes in Lebanon. Great, huh? :wink:

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grim_tales wrote:I hear what you're saying Mark, freedom for all. :) But there's a difference - a kilt is traditional Scots male dress yes, but its' not religious, not something you "have" to put on as part of your race or religion, and you have a choice :) Were Scots ever forced to wear kilts? :wink: The girl has no choice.
Which isn't true... there's no law in Islam which requires these specific garments. It's purely a matter of choice. Dressing modestly (as decreed) and covering up completely aren't the same thing. This case has been manipulated by Islamic extremists to cause friction where there was none. The majority of the school's pupils are Muslim and had no problem with the existing uniform. And again I ask: Is religious freedom more important than "tradition" or personal freedom. No one seems to answer.
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thelostdragon wrote:First of all, a dumb blonde with her tits almost falling out of her shirt is more provocative than a woman wearing a scarf in my opinion, don't you think so, too?
The answer was Jordan. But I don't suppose you've heard of her in Germany? And yes on an obvious level. But provocation takes many forms.
I mean a woman who wears a scarf does it, because she believes it is a law of God's. I can't believe a "dumb blond" is showing lots of skin because she thinks she is obliged to do so or because she believes that otherwise she will be punished in her after-life.
Again, this is my fault for the joke which you clearly didn't get. But to answer: in the UK a law of God is not a law of the land. As a secular country we shouldn't distinguish between religious law or reasoning and non-religious.
Man, you should go to Lebanon for example. Lots of Russian foreigners live there and their ladies walk around like they wouldn't even do in Russia because it's too cold there to do so. There are even Russian prostitutes in Lebanon. Great, huh? :wink:
Progression?? :P

On a personal level what's your stance on the covering of women? You think it's appropriate and if so to what degree. I remember at our School Muslim girls were allowed to wear trousers, but not white girls. Racist?

"SkinHeads Against Racial Prejudice". I'll keep that in mind for when my hair falls out. Hopefully not for another 50 years. :wink:
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I'm not sure if I'd call that racist, it doesnt seem right though. Consider this quote from Jan Mark's classic book Hairs In the Palm of the Hand, in which the girl Eileen causes trouble in a school in the interests of women's rights.

"Then I might suggest you're not getting off to a very good start. And you'll wear a skirt in future please. Girls arent allowed to wear trousers to school until they're in the fifth year"

"Can fifth year boys wear skirts, then?" Eileen asked.

:lol:

You're right there is a difference between dressing discreetly and covering up completely. But you're not doing that with a scarf. As I said maybe she could wear the scarf over the uniform?
Do the other Muslim girls think its their duty to wear the jihlab (sp?) scarf? In the 80's at my primary school, one Muslim girl in our class wore a sari to school I think, on many occasions, she choice to wear it and nothing was said about it.

If I have the wrong end of the stick (again :P ) I'm sorry :)
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Markgway wrote:Maybe to you, an ENGLISHman, a Kilt is a laugh, but many Scots take in seriously. Are their feelings not to be taken into account?
Fair point then. I've met my fair share of Scotts and I never got the impression it's anything more than a laugh now a days. You're right if it is that important then yes it should be allowed. The big difference is we may moan it's not fair but I'm willing to bet no Scott would go to court over it, as the person we're discussing has.

There was no need to add my "Englishness" into the equation as that's not a completely accurate statement anyway.
I happen to think there's no place for religion in schools at all. It's a private matter and should be kept for home. Once someone is an adult they can make their own choices.
I happen to agree but if you have religious beliefs at a young age (which may or may not be affected by your parents beliefs) it seems unfair to me to quash these while you're at school.
Stupidity. Do these muppets not realise that doing this in minorities names (when they want no part of it) causes additional friction. Everytime an act of PC hits the fan a minority pays the price. But the liberals don't care as long as they're seen to be doing the "right" thing.
The most ridiculous thing is the section of society (in this case black people) who are supposed to be offended by this term aren't even offended.
Markgway wrote:I remember at our School Muslim girls were allowed to wear trousers, but not white girls. Racist?
Yep but it goes back to what I said about non-Europeans fighting all the way to court. It's one thing to moan but if you're really not happy about it then prove it.
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Interesting. I'm wondering why someone would go to so much trouble over what is to me just a hair cut.
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Branching out a little, I heard a report that said Trevor Phillips, the Head of the Commission for Racial Equality said that black pupils should be taught seperately in class from white pupils as they are not getting good GCSE's, and this would help them concentrate better, or something like that.

:? I'm sorry but i don't understand that at all. IMO segregation based on race is appalling (look at how blacks were treated early this century in America). Thats really strange that he should SUPPORT segregation, I bet if a white person said that Trevor Phillips would codemn him.
Having people taught seperately based on race (whats being advocated here) is not equality, to say suggest some get bad grades because "white children disrupt them" is ludicrous. :evil: The pupils are disruptive because they are disruptive, not disruptive because they are of a certain race/group. :roll:

I can see the point that seperate teaching (ie 1-on-1 tuition or smaller class sizes or whatever) may improve grades, but bringing race into it is just plain wrong and it will just increase resentment and racism towards the black population (the last thing we, as a multi-cultural society, want or need). :? :cry:

OK, rant over ;)
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To be fair Grim that's not really a form of segregation. It's a fact (or so I think it is) that white pupils and not just in the UK do better at school than black pupils but yes I agree separating them won't make much difference.

It's more to do with the fact (again or so I believe) that black kids are generally brought up worse off than white kids. In a mainly white society!

Why has there never been a black prime minister, for example!
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bradavon wrote:Fair point then. I've meat my fair share of Scotts and I never got the impression it's anything more than a laugh now a days. You're right if it is that important then yes it should be allowed. The big difference is we may moan it's not fair but I'm willing to bet no Scott would go to court over it, as the person we're discussing has.
I doubt most Scots would care that much... I don't. Never worn a Kilt in my life, just used to make an example. But my point about the freedom is valid.
There was no need to add my "Englishness" into the equation as that's not a completely accurate statement anyway.
You not English? Sorry, I assumed. And I think there was a need to mention your "Englishness" to show how what's important to one culture isn't to another, but that every culture/person has the freedom to choose. As a non-Scot as soon as I mentioned Kilt you thought it was funny. But If I said I thought Jihab's were funny you'd call me racist. See the inconsistancy?

I happen to agree but if you have religious beliefs at a young age (which may or may not be affected by your parents beliefs) it seems unfair to me to quash these while you're at school.
It's not quashing them to ask children to keep their religious beliefs in check during school hours. I doubt any God will strike someone down for wearing an approved school uniform. Bear in mind that Britain is already highly tolerant to religious dresscode. All I'm arguing for is that the same tolerance be afforded to everyone.
The most ridiculous thing is the section of society (in this case black people) who are supposed to be offended by this term aren't even offended.
Exactly. The number of times I've read quotes from Muslim representatives complaining about white liberals acting in their name without consultation must be into triple figures within the last few years. Let Muslims speak for themselves or are the liberal elite frightened of what they might say?
Markgway wrote:Yep but it goes back to what I said about non-Europeans fighting all the way to court. It's one thing to moan but if you're really not happy about it then prove it.
You're right. That'll never happen. Whites are sometimes to passe about these things. They'll either accept rules or break them but never actually challenge them. More fool us. Although our girls in school did eventually win the right to wear trousers.
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grim_tales wrote:Branching out a little, I heard a report that said Trevor Phillips, the Head of the Commission for Racial Equality said that black pupils should be taught seperately in class from white pupils as they are not getting good GCSE's, and this would help them concentrate better, or something like that.
Trevor Phillips is an idiot. Practically every statement he makes is useless. I wouldn't pay any attention to his peculiar views. Segregating black pupils? Why don't we just go back to the days when the niggers sat at the back of the bus? Are these people determined to split races apart? Undoing all the good work of the Civil Rights movement. In the 60's they had Martin Luther King. Now we have a Trevor Philips. WTF happened??? :roll:
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bradavon wrote: It's a fact (or so I think it is) that white pupils and not just in the UK do better at school than black pupils but yes I agree separating them won't make much difference. It's more to do with the fact (again or so I believe) that black kids are generally brought up worse off than white kids. In a mainly white society!
Right idea, wrong reason. It's been suggested cautiously that the reason Black males do so poorly at school is a lack of discipline and male role models (ie. fathers). The percentage of Black kids without Dads compared to the positively nuclear Asians is alarming. Mothers often cannot cope and fail to steer their children away from gang culture and the frankly detremental hip-hop attitude of live fast, take drugs, commit drive-bys and bling 'til you drop.
Why has there never been a black prime minister, for example!
Name a Black Politician without looking it up. That's why? Nothing to do with any form of racism. But a general malaise on the part of Black males who have no social ambition. It's tragic and something needs to be done. But segregation is a fool's answer.
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Paul Boateng? Oona King? ;)
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Similar to the Muslim girl story with the scarf, did you hear about the 13 year old girl who was excluded because she wanted to wear her hair in braids (?) but the school said she couldn't do that. She refused to change her hair. However, there were 2 Afro-Carribean pupils with that hairstyle, and the school said it was OK for them to have it when they asked.

Since this is not a "religious" or "culture" thing (do Africans "have to" braid their hair? No!) what justification is there for this? That sucks IMO. :( Why should the other pupils be allowed to have that hair while the girl is excluded? :? :roll:
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That's exactly the sort of thing I was talking about. You all knew it would happen. The girl's parents (not allowed to wear braids) should complain about being persecuted. See what happens?
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LOL, I'm sorry, but to me this is the most rudiculous rule a school can have. Why in the world can't people do what they want to their hair. I had so many different hair styles when I went to school over here. I even shaved my head bald sometimes. Nobody told me I couldn't. That's so idiotic to make pupil feel they're part of an army.
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this particular case was made all the more ridiculous by the conservatism of the braiding in question, it actually looked very respectable.

I can see how the school were cornered there though, first they get pressured into having school uniform to stop the label culture that causes so many problems (people getting beaten up for their trainers etc, really does happen inner city in the uk), then the two kids turn up with braids, the school realises that it breaks their rules but dont dare do anything because they know full well they are screwed if someone plays the race card, and then the last girl does it, they can't allow it after all theyve already had to claim, they find themselves in a lose lose situation brought about by the fear of being taken to court.. ;)
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